SELECT 
  category_id, 
  parent_id 
FROM 
  cscart_categories 
WHERE 
  parent_id IN(166) 
  AND category_id != 264

Query time 0.00040

JSON explain

{
  "query_block": {
    "select_id": 1,
    "cost_info": {
      "query_cost": "3.85"
    },
    "table": {
      "table_name": "cscart_categories",
      "access_type": "ref",
      "possible_keys": [
        "PRIMARY",
        "parent",
        "p_category_id"
      ],
      "key": "parent",
      "used_key_parts": [
        "parent_id"
      ],
      "key_length": "3",
      "ref": [
        "const"
      ],
      "rows_examined_per_scan": 11,
      "rows_produced_per_join": 11,
      "filtered": "100.00",
      "cost_info": {
        "read_cost": "2.75",
        "eval_cost": "1.10",
        "prefix_cost": "3.85",
        "data_read_per_join": "34K"
      },
      "used_columns": [
        "category_id",
        "parent_id"
      ],
      "attached_condition": "(`softwarepirmam_hewadelivard_cscart_4`.`cscart_categories`.`category_id` <> 264)"
    }
  }
}